Dear Sugar, 

I am in love with my Inlaw's younger sister but my brother wouldn’t allow us to have peace. He keeps threatening me and saying I want to jeopardise his relationship with his wife who is her older sister. How does my relationship affect his? I don’t know what to do, this is starting to affect our relationship but I love her a lot. She is perfect for me. What should I do?

Dear Anon,

Dear Sugar,

I am 25 years old and the only child. Ever since I turned 22, my mum would constantly make remarks about me finding a husband and giving her grandchildren. I know this sounds archaic but that is my life at the moment.

When I turned 24, I started dating my boyfriend, and my parents were always doting on him, and I find it annoying. Now, my boyfriend has been hinting at marriage and I can't help but feel like I am not ready. I'm really scared and I am at crossroads as to what to do. Please advice.

Anon

Dear Sugar

I am a mother of two and married to a lovely husband. Recently, my husband has started teasing me about having another child. And what he doesn't know is that I have tied my tubes after having our second child.

Giving birth is not a joke for me at all, and I know how much I suffered from having those two kids. So I had it tied without informing him. Now, my issue is that it has gotten a lot intense, he keeps talking about having a third child and last time, I got angry with him insisting.

Ah, the end of the year. A time to kick back and unwind from the stress of the year. This season is one that a lot of people look forward to throughout the year for various reasons. For some, it is because they get an extended break from work. For others, it’s because they get to visit family. Some look forward to it because of the parties.

We can all agree that the holiday spirit plus romance can be a blast- nothing short of a surreal experience that captures the essence of receiving and giving out love to our partners. One thing’s sure: couples are up for planning dates to treat themselves to a wonderful time in each other’s company. 

To that end, here are some ideas to make your holiday date nights a memorable experience:

The holiday season is an interesting time to explore your inner self coupled with the thirst for adventure as a single. Being single offers all the opportunities to unlock aspects of yourself you never knew existed.

When this is coupled with a spirit of adventure, your sense of self is heightened further. Wondering which places to visit in your own company in this period? Look no further as you can explore the options below:

After months and hours of wedding planning, emotional outbursts, and sleepless nights, your big day is finally done and dusted.  However, there are still a few post-wedding things that you need to sort out before settling into the married life. To ensure you are ready to start this journey, here are a few things you should do right after you get married