Dear Sugar,
I am 25 years old and the only child. Ever since I turned 22, my mum would constantly make remarks about me finding a husband and giving her grandchildren. I know this sounds archaic but that is my life at the moment.
When I turned 24, I started dating my boyfriend, and my parents were always doting on him, and I find it annoying. Now, my boyfriend has been hinting at marriage and I can't help but feel like I am not ready. I'm really scared and I am at crossroads as to what to do. Please advice.
Anon
Dear Anon,
This must be confusing and hard for you. Having to feel pressured to do something you've not been certain about can take a toll on your mental health in the long run.
Your uncertainty simply suggests that you're not ready for marriage, and that is okay. You'll need to have a serious conversation with your parents about how this makes you feel. If you feel that your parents will still not understand, ensure that you place your judgements above everything else.
Marriage requires that you should be ready, and if you're uncertain, you may regret getting married.
Wishing you the very best
Love,
Sugar