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Dear Sugar,
Please keep me anon, there has been something bothering my mind for a while now. I am in love with this guy, he's really nice and extremely supportive. But he's really bad at sex. Every time we have sex, he either finishes too fast and sleeps off immediately or I am in pains all through. There's no in-between.
This Valentine that's coming, he's already telling me he has started setting the mood. He has already even booked a hotel for two nights for us just so we can experience something different from what we usually have. I am already getting stressed from thinking about it. What do I do?
Dear Anon,
Sex is an important factor in your relationship. And it's a necessary conversation to have. Rather than blurting out that he's bad at sex, direct him to the parts of your body that arouse you, and show him how to stimulate your arousal as well. Use this Valentine period to also discuss other ways of pleasuring you, in the case where he's too tired after sex.
Wishing you a happy valentine's day
Love
Sugar