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Dear Sugar,

I just lost my phone and had to use my husband's old phone temporarily. I was casually cleaning out the phone when i found sex tapes of my husband and other women. I was dazed and disturbed, still am. Should I confront him about it?
- Tinuke

Dear Sugar,

I was recently diagnosed with a terminal disease that required surgery. My husband is a doctor so he was completely involved in my treatments and all. However, somewhere down the line, our sex life became nonexistent although we are still very much in love.
Now my husband is suggesting we swing in order to fix our issues. He says a lot of married people swing these days. I want to try it but I’m confused. What do you think?
- Dara

Dear Dara,

Dear Sugar,
I just started dating again since the birth of my child but i'm scared to tell my boyfriend about my child. What should i do?
- Busayo

Dear sugar,
I have a crush on my husband’s friend and I think it’s mutual. I fear telling him may ruin our marriage. What should I do?
- Vanessa.

Dear Vanessa,

Dear Sugar,

I’m considering buying a used wedding dress; my friends think it’s a crazy idea; I would like to know the pros and cons to it.
- Rebecca Ade

Dear Rebecca,

This depends on two major things, Are you a bride on a budget? Or are you the type of bride that can’t justify spending hundreds of thousands of Naira on a dress that you will typically wear once in your life?

There are a few pros and cons to buying a used wedding dress.

Pros

My husband is a chronic cheat, when I say CHRONIC I mean its really bad. He sleeps with and flirts with any woman he sees - my friends are not even off limits!!!! I have talked, screamed, cried, begged, prayed. Most people say I should leave but I don't believe in divorce.

Hi Sugar, I am getting scared everyday as my wedding day approaches. My man loves me so much and has been my support. We have known each other for Seven years but started dating last year and then he proposed to me this january. But I don't feel I love him even though he has been very supportive and has a very good character. What do I do?

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Dear Mr Sugar,

I wasn't really worried about marriage until I turned thirty, then it suddenly seemed like I was running out of time. Luckily, I met my fiancé a few months after my thirtieth birthday and we clicked instantly.

Dear Mr. Sugar,

I'm a 34 year old woman currently not in a relationship with no prospects in sight. Every man who comes my way is either married, in some sort of relationship or, just plain unserious.