Planning & Resources

When your wedding vendors go MIA or fail to deliver what you specifically ask for, it can feel like a nightmare. There’s a spectrum to this of course: from delays in replying emails or returning calls, to the full-on wedding day no-show potential disaster. Here’s how to manage the situation.

1. Do your homework

Choosing your bridesmaids is a very important decision. They are after all going to be by your side through the planning and the big day itself, so you want to make sure they’ll have your back at the wedding day front line.

You may have a host of family and friends expecting or assuming they’ll be asked, and maybe even a childhood bestie you promised the role when you were 9. Who, though, should be in your bridal train? Let’s help you decide.

1. How many? 

Pre-wedding jitters, cold feet, bridal nerves: they all mean the same thing – sweaty palms, quickening heartbeat, a little fear, maybe even a mini breakdown. They can start from right after the proposal, or wait until the big day to show up.

If you’re very nervous but at the same time excited about getting married to this person, congratulations – you have pre-wedding jitters and they are normal. You are taking a life-changing step after all (no pressure!) and this article will help you with ways to calm your nerves.