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Relationships are bound to have problems at some point. How these issues are approached is what really makes the difference. Sometimes, it seems like there are blots and no open space.
However, using the right words and method will almost always solve them. We have compiled a list of strategies suggested to help you solve relationship dilemmas.
Always begin Conversations Gently
Never start confrontational. It always ends up in a mess. Rather take up the issue in a gentler manner and try to iron out every bit of information in a calmer state. This way you get to understand your partner’s angle and then, you can easily tender yours.
Be detailed but concise as possible
If it means outlining your issues, then do it. This way, your partner can respond to each of them likewise in simple clear terms. Talking too much may make you lose the points you’re trying to make.
Be Calm
The only way to settle an already mounting issue is to be as calm as possible. Even if you’re extremely upset, being calm helps you see things clearer. It also helps you process your thoughts, thereby avoiding any irrational behaviour.
Don’t Shut your Partner Up
You’re looking for trouble if you’re constantly hushing up your partner. Always allow them to air their feelings and always ask to understand their viewpoint. Paying attention to and considering what they are saying, is a way of saying that you respect them despite the little discrepancies.
Learn to let some things slide
More often than not, 70% of relationship issues end up unresolved. Except for the really intense deal breakers, you need to learn how to let it go. In fact, your partner may just find a way to ‘’try to resolve’’ it. Try not to prolong the issues especially when it is becoming unnecessary and both parties have heard each other out. Subconsciously, you would notice the change in their approach after your discussion.