Flirting Is A Basic Instinct And Part Of Human Nature
One of the things you and your spouse did when you first met and started dating was to convey your intentions in a playful and romantic way through flirting with each other. We can even bet that you had sex at every given opportunity, not minding where and when. Now that you are married, don't stop flirting with your spouse. Let it be a basic ingredient in your relationship no matter the challenges / pressure you both face on a daily basis.
Why Flirting With Your Spouse Is Important
Flirting is a way to be playful with your spouse.
- Flirting can be an ego booster for both you and your spouse.
- Flirting with each other helps keep your marriage alive.
- It is a positive way to communicate your love to each other.
- It is a way to remind one another that you are still attracted to each other.
- It is good for your children and grandchildren to notice your love for one another.
- Flirting with your spouse should be fun and natural.
How to Flirt With Your Spouse
- Be spontaneous.
- Don't flirt at the same time everyday.
- Look into your spouse's eyes. You have to make endearing eye contact.
- Coy looks, a glance, a wink, a smile, a pat on your spouse's b**t, lowering your eyes, an arched eyebrow etc, these all say you are still interested in your spouse.
- You can toss your head slightly, squeeze your spouse's hand or knee, place your hand in a light touch on your mate's shoulder or back, give a hug.
- The tone of your voice, leaning towards your spouse when giving a compliment, or a peck on your spouse's neck can show you care.
- You know what your "come-and-get-me stance" is, so, give your spouse that look at an unpredictable time.
- Other flirting cues are whispering, fidgeting with earrings, necklace, necktie, change in your pocket, sitting close together, shyly looking away, leaving a love note for your spouse to find, planting a short unexpected wet kiss on his/her lips. and so on.
The list is endless really, bottom line is, whatever you do ensure that you target the right time and atmosphere for your 'flirting skills' to make a lasting impression on your spouse.
Having said that, enjoy this lovely wedding anniversary photo shoot of Temi & Segun as they celebrate one year of wedding bliss together.
It's obvious the their love is still blossoming and hot. We wish them many beautiful years together.
Photo Credit - Klala Photography
