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Hausa weddings are usually very rich with colour, culture and tradition. Marriage in Hausa land is somewhat different.
Are you looking forward to attending a Hausa wedding and don’t know what to expect? Here’s the ultimate guide to marrying a Hausa Bride:
Na Gani Ina (What I see)
This step is similar to what we know as the introduction of families. When the groom or his family has selected a potential bride and indicated interest in seeking her hand in marriage, the bride’s family start their due diligence on the groom’s family background. This research involves ascertaining their religious beliefs, morals and general way of life.
Couple’s Friendship
If the bride’s family are satisfied with the groom’s family, the bride and the groom will be allowed to get acquainted before the groom actually makes a formal request for the bride’s hand in marriage. This, however, does not include any form of intimacy, physical contact or courting.
Kanya Zance and Gaisuwais
This is the stage where the bride price is negotiated; the groom’s family visits the bride’s family with Kolanut, sweets and other provisions. They also present the ‘Kanya Zance’ which comprise of gifts for the bride like clothes, perfumes, shoes, underwear, jewellery and money. After these items are accepted, the bride price is negotiated (Gaisuwais).
Rubu Dinar
The groom’s family also gives a quarter kilogram of gold (or more). The belief is that when the bride price is low, the couple will grow into more blessings.
Sadaki and Sarana
The sadaki (dowry) is fulfilled and the bride is handed over to the groom. This is followed by setting the official wedding date (sarana).
Elaborate occasions happen in stages; are you going to be that Hausa Bride that gets swept away? Make sure your Henna designs are unbeatable!