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For most couples, magical beginnings start with a proposal. Then, it follows with the customary introduction and plans for a wedding.
But what about when all of that doesn’t happen? Should you consider getting a wedding dress in hopes that he will pop the question? Let’s take a look at the pros and cons of making this decision.
PROS
Financial Proactiveness
What’s the worst that could happen? Choosing to buy your wedding dress before your engagement doesn’t necessarily have to be a bad idea. For starters, you may be saving yourself and your partner a huge chunk of money especially if you’re working with a personal stylist. You’ll have a lot of time to properly choose the right dress without having to rush because of a planned out date.
A Sure Fire
If you’re certain your relationship is stable enough and you’ve been seeing hints of a proposal, you can go ahead with your fittings. Make sure you work with a friend who can help you pick the best styling for your wedding gown.
No Surprises
Are you planning on proposing to her and you’re certain she’ll say yes? Then, you can start speaking with wedding stores as it will serve as a double surprise for your beau.
In the case where you’re uncertain about your relationship but still considering buying a dress, make deposits first. This way, you can choose to gift someone else getting married or sell it off. Some wedding boutiques also offer to return a part of your deposit; you can ask your desired wedding store about their policies in terms of issues such as this.
CONS
Rejection
It is quite easy to have the best scenarios and forget the possibilities of unfortunate incidences.
The bad side of buying a wedding dress can be embarrassing. There are so many what-ifs. For instance, she may reject your proposal and you’d have to find a way to sort out the already bought dress.
Failed Relationship
A lot of issues can crop up; you realize the relationship wasn’t worth it, the religion suddenly becomes a problem, or your family wouldn’t give their blessings. He may never propose or you find out someone is cheating in the relationship.
No Returns Or Refunds
Another worse scenario is not being able to return or resell your wedding dress.
Technically, your decision about buying a wedding dress is solely yours. However, it’s best to be aware of whatever consequences that come with it. So that way, you’ll be prepared for whatever happens.