You met this amazing guy. He takes you on dates frequently. You guys spend hours on the phone laughing and learning more about each other. You send cute and flirty text messages back and forth all day. Then, one day, out of the blue, all of that comes to a screeching halt. Days, weeks and maybe even months have gone by without you receiving so much as a “Good Morning” text from him and for the life of you, you can’t seem to figure out what went wrong.
No one wants to feel “played” or rejected, but it’s how you carry yourself in situations such as this one that determines whether or not you’ll come out on top.
So from a MALE perspective, I've shared few things you shouldn't do, when that guy stops calling.
1: Sending Angry Text Messages To Him
In this one, something is certain and that is, "you're going to in one way or another regret doing it". Is it worth it? Someone doesn't want you and then you're that mad at him. What happened to your feminine dignity? How about your self worth? I know it's easier said than done but you'll be better off moving on.
2: Repeatedly Calling Him
We're humans and we all have some level of common sense.You have enough sense to know when someone doesn't want to speak to you. Once you know that he’s okay, in good health and not in danger, there’s no need to continue calling him off the hook, especially if he isn't answering. Step away from your handheld device, please.
3: Stalking His Facebook & Twitter Profile
It makes perfect sense that you would snoop around his profile, looking for possible leads that can assist you in solving the mystery of why he hasn't called. Maybe you’ll find that he met someone else or was in a secret relationship all along, but honestly, what will that prove? Spare yourself the anger, bitterness, resentment and hurt feelings. Keep it moving and stay off of his online profiles.
4: Trying To Get Information From His Friends or Family Of His Where-about
Really? What exactly would you be thinking doing this? Chances are they’re going to go back and tell him. Simply put, this is not a good look. And again, what will this prove? Where’s your dignity, girl? I’m going to need you to fall all the way back, because this isn't healthy in anyway.
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Source:
Flaubert Ajiero