Weddings can be a pretty big deal especially if you plan on having a real ‘theatre production.' The same nerves could abide even for an intimate gathering where you perceive that the execution will be flawless considering the relatively smaller size of the event. Becoming overwhelmed is inevitable but can be managed; here are five coping strategies for the overwhelmed bride or groom:
Hire an Event Planner
No, you may not be able to plan a wedding on your own, and that's alright. You may not have time to juggle a job or manage a business and bring your vision to life. Itemize your brief and hand it over to a wedding planner who understands you and your vision so you can make lemonade with the other lemons life has thrown your way.
Delegate Responsibilities from your To-Do List
Even if you hire a wedding planner, there are still some things you need to do on your own. It will be helpful to share your deliverables with immediate family or friends who will be more than happy to help. Your future mother-in-law who grows flowers in her garden may be pleased that you seek her recommendation and service on bouquets and centrepieces for the wedding and your best friend who is a dancer will be thrilled to choreograph that special surprise for your wedding reception.
Relaxing Activities
It is important not to live, eat and breathe wedding planning; have a day away at the beach with your favourite bottle of wine and significant other or get a full body spa treatment. Physical activities like yoga, dancing or boxing could also be used as alternative therapy where you bask in a release of happy emotions just for a while.
Focus on Married Life
While focusing on how well the wedding will go, shift your focus to how fulfilling life after the wedding will be with your husband. Take time out for some counselling and prepare yourself for a rollercoaster of ups and downs, smiles and frowns.
Call a Recently Married Friend
Seeking advice on a specific aspect of your wedding? Don't fret, just call friends that have been recently married and obtain their perspective on makeup artists, bridesmaid dresses or even desserts.
Do you think you can go ahead with planning this wedding on your own or will you need some help? Good Luck!
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