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Imagine having a Nigerian wedding without enjoying the magnanimity that is traditional weddings. From the colors to the burst of tradition to the music, you get to experience the beauty of an African fairytale beginning. All of this excitement brings even newer discoveries. If you never knew much about traditional weddings, here are some interesting facts that will wow you:
Introductions Are Proposals
Traditionally, the groom and his family are expected to go to the bride’s family to ask for her hand in marriage. This follows a series of conversations where each family introduces themselves and show their interests in one another. If you’re following customs, you’re expected to do this first as opposed to proposing to her directly.
They Bring Families Together
If you ever thought traditional weddings were simply just ceremonies, they’re a lot more than that. After getting to know each other from the introduction, traditional marriage is designed to unite both families together. In some cultures, you’re not just marrying the bride or the groom, you’re marrying their family as well. Technically representing the families and providing support where it is needed.
Tradition on Dowry and Bride Price
Did you ever think it was just the groom and his family that pays an amount of money? No. In some cultures, the bride’s family is expected to pay a dowry to the groom’s family while receiving the bride price.
Marrying The Whole Family
Yes. You’re not marrying a single person but an entirety. So, they will be very involved in your activities even after marriage. For instance, some cultures accept divorce in cases where their child is being maltreated or abused.
Epic Games
During the traditional wedding ceremony, you’ll be thrilled with some interesting games like finding the bride or groom. A lot of these games are quite interesting. They thrill both the guests, the couple and their families. It’s most times the highlight of the party. This is why a lot of cultures tend to invest heavily in MCs who can speak interestingly and get everyone else involved.
What Aso-Ebi Is About
The Aso-ebi culture is typically practiced in the Yoruba tradition. The name transliterated as “the family fabric” is designed for family, friends and other well-wishers who want to be a part of the goodness that comes with the wedding. If you happen to buy the fabrics, it shows how much importance you hold to the family or your camaraderie with them. It also tends to differentiate the inner circle from the guests.