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Let's face it; being in a relationship does not mean you're ready for marriage. While there's the notion that believes you're never really ready to start a union, some signs can still help guide you. If you've been wondering about the right time for marriage, look out for these signs:
You're Financially Stable
One of the major disruptions in marriage is money. Consider that you'll be responsible for someone else apart from yourself. If you plan on having children, realize that will be expenses you need to plan for.
You Love Yourself
The first rule of marriage is loving yourself. When you notice you're happy about your life and you're having a great mental state, then it's time to get married. Loving yourself gives you enough space to love others and as well, help them love themselves.
You're Content With Who You're With
If you're still doubtful about the relationship you're in, then the next action isn't to put a ring on it. When you're not consciously (or unconsciously) looking (or thinking) of a better half other than them, you are indeed in love.
Everyone Loves Them Too
Unlike that ex that all your friends and family had doubts about, your current partner is everyone's best friend. If you're not getting red flags from the people you care about, then you should start considering getting married.
You Don't Threaten To Leave During Heated Conversations
If you're bent on getting married to them, it means being able to sort out your differences without walking out. When you've gotten to that stage in a relationship where you don't avoid difficult conversations then it's time.
You're Happy Together
They're your gist partners and best buddies. You're pretty much happier when they are around you and you most often have the best of times together. If this is you, then getting married does sound like a great idea!
You Don't Hesitate With Apologies
Indeed everyone makes mistakes. However, it takes a person who truly cares to apologize during disputes. If you're ready to easily apologize, then you're on the right track leading to nuptial ties.
You're Making Efforts To Make It Work
Yes, you're in love with yourselves, but that's not the finality. Having to move on in the relationship requires work and a conscious effort towards it. You're not just magically expecting that your love can sort it out, you're putting in all the work it needs. When you both are consciously making this effort, you should consider making it official.
Let love win and make it work!