Do you think the main man in your life is not that into you? As they say, when you know, you know but if he is blatantly not the one for you, what are you going to do?
To save yourself some heartache, look out for tell-tale signs and notice these six reasons that show he is not that into you:
Sparse Communication
The guy in question does not make efforts to speak to you all the time, to find out what you are doing and how your day went. He merely says hello or always endeavours to comment on your recently posted pics on social media, just for the slaying.
There’s a difference between surface conversation and proper conversation that engages an appropriate level of emotion.
Spending Non-Quality Time Together
It is important to check that the time being spent together is actually quality time; speaking about life, career and dreams are intentional. If a guy just wants to spend time with you to tick a box, so he doesn't feel so bad trying to be intimate with you, then he’s not that into you.
Immediate Intimacy
A guy that is into you will take his time to build a friendship with you and get close to you before the issue of intimacy comes up. A guy that is not that into you is not afraid of messing things up and will even make sexual advances at a very early stage.
Wandering Eyes
He will always look at other women unashamedly in your presence and even make eye contact with them, implying to them that you may not be an important stakeholder in his life.
Meeting His Circle
He is definitely not that into you if he doesn’t fancy you meeting his close friends and family. If you are already in a supposed relationship of at least 3-6 months and you haven’t met his inner circle, then he may be hiding something or living a double life!
This may be confusing because, in some instances, guys don't mind introducing you to their inner circle at any time because it may just be his habit to have a “flavour of the month".
Sharing In Your Emotions
If he is nonchalant about a situation that changes your mood, your wins and losses, then maybe this guy is not sensitive towards your feelings.
Are you involved with any guy like this?
It might be time to re-evaluate your options with him and move on to someone who appreciates you and even loves you.