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Sometimes, forever isn't the plan with your partner. A lot of times, you may have this hunch or the urge to leave the relationship. But you can't grasp what it is exactly. While this may be a tough choice, making the best decision for yourself is what matters. Here are the signs you need to look out for before ending the relationship.
You're fantasising about someone else
It's natural when you're attracted to someone else while you're still in a relationship. The reasons for it differ. However, the moment you're lingering on that fantasy, you're no longer interested in your partner. If you have relationship daydreams of that person every time, you should end your relationship.
Very little attention
Yes, there are ''dark times'' where you both don't have time. Usually, these periods don't last so long. Your relationship should revolve around you both. When you notice your partner isn't paying attention to your needs, dreams, interests, goals or isn't particularly trying to get involved, you should call it quits.
You don't care about your looks anymore
Remember how great it was when you started? Yes, it should get even better. The moment you don't care about whether your partner finds you attractive is the moment you should re-evaluate. That's the beginning of a red flag.
You can't get over their cheating
Maybe your partner cheated. If you can't get over the thought, it's best to end it with them. You will end up blaming everything on their infidelity and strain the relationship. If you can't handle it, take a break from it all.
Your views are changing
You probably thought he/she would change their mind about having/not having children. They may have changed their mindsets about religion, society and a lot of others. The truth is, it doesn't get any better. It gets a lot worse. So rather than hang around hoping for a change, you should end it before it gets a lot more complex.
Your conversations are boring
When you start having boring conversations, or you get bored with the activities of your partner, then you should leave the relationship.
You can't imagine a future with them
You don't think you can stand being with them by next year. Or at the moment you feel stuck. If you're in the relationship out of pity, please leave. It's better off in the long run for both your mental health.